. . . Ladies, Y'all Know Better!

Granted, there isn't a soul walking this earth that is perfect.

 

However, over the past 6 months have encountered a few men who are absolutely delightful and they are constantly putting there best foot forward for the woman they love, all should be good and well... Sounds "fairtale'ish" right?

GOOD!

 

Definitely a too good to be true thing!

Not by any fault of the males however; its the f e m a l e !

 

I promise not to exaggerate any situations. I'm just gonna put things out there and tell you how i see it && your more then welcome to commentate or just spectate on anything here.

 

 

We will call this guy "Reasonable Doubt" & for good reason.

Reasonable doubt is a very hard worker and a family man at heart. He maintains two jobs while still going to school mind you he's in his early 20's. And not to sound cliche but he truly is "talk, dark, and handsome" well not super tall buh taller then me... welp anyway beforei get off topic, he has a fiance and they together have a child. He never really bashes her however from what I know of the situation she just dont care! He gives her the world, they've been together for years atleast 5. They have been thru alot but all of which are things to bring them closer and she just dont seem to be fazed by any of that...

Now I will admit I don't know EVERYTHING about their relationship, buh i know enough to know that he's a great catch and if i were in that predicament i would be very complient and accepting of the life style my "fiance" wants to provide for me and our child. I wouldn't do anything outlandish like have a boyfriend.

*shrugs shoulders* I dont know, some people just dont appreciate the "good life".

 

Now this guy we shall call him "Ralph Lauren"  & it fits.

This guy is the typical boy next door! He's well educated and popular to just the right extent, well mannered, dresses to thee occasion and theee most thoughtful man on earth if he feels some-type of way towards you. He's the type of guy if you say your thirsty hes bringing you water, juice, soda & tea ! He just wants to see you smile. And he has this "not girlfriend" girlfriend.... I know it sounds crazy but bare with me. This young lady has nooooooooo clue as to what she wants, she has that whole " I'm not ready to be a girlfriend BUT i don't want any one else to have you because i know your a good catch" type of complex. And he has been courting and dealing wit this young lady for a little over a year, fought her ex-boyfriend and she still doesn't know if she wants to commit or not.... I know y'all raising ya brows all crazy like "wtf o_O" buh hey he's content wit this.... she also

 

Now MIND you; both "reasonable doubt" && "Ralph Lauren" ALLEGEDLY gets  no ass from these "women" in there life because she doesn't "want" to or shes not in the mood or what ever cockamamie excuse they feed them.  Their ok with continuing to be in a relationship where there being mistreated, unappreciated and under fucked... I don't get it ! That's like working for a company doing alot of manual labor and then turning around and saying oh you ain't gotta pay me tho bc I'm use to you.

-_-

 

Buh I was just taking this time to tell you:

 

a) there are good well great men out there

b) got a good dude by ya side acknowledge him

c) PLEASE be intimate with your spouce.